If you are young, modern and into urbanization kind of guy and did not successfully woo any girls or women from middle school or 5th grade or college, chances are you are deep into free online dating sites (okay, maybe just a site!). You have to first admit this.Online dating doesn't make you a creepy loser. But your pet lizard will do just that! Millions of folks are hooking up with future life partners (or dates or flings or accommodating couples) via the internet web every day! With that in mind, what are you going to do? Millions are scrolling through photos, cancelling out those with babies, a tummy, looking like some nerdy freak out of college (I once was that!) and even after she deems you attractive looking like a James Bond guy, what are you going to say to her for the first message!?
Your message does not have to be creative, but just do not write the common wrong things that everybody eager to meet their dream girl will do!
1). The man who is just a common soul.
"Hey, what's up, babe? =)" Yeah, just great! Your potential date probably deleted you with a thousand others with the same phrase without blinking her eye! Create a hobby of some sort. See what she likes and try to ride on that SINCERELY (that is the key).
2). The man who wrote his entire life story.
I do not even need to tell you an example! This basically tells the girl there is nothing else to know about you! Period! What you want to do is get her interested in you and you might want to hint an exciting hobby you do or a project you are doing which will get her to talk about and want to know you more!
3). The man who is a weirdo.
"OMG! You sure are a purty lady! I would love to take you down and push you on the swings! Or how about to the safari? Or to the zoo and we can find Madagascar folks there too! I loved Inspector Gadgets and I wished to be one! Don't you think that's cool!
Why no one wants you: She will delete you flat out cause you will either murder her in her sleep or put a spy robot to ensure she does not meet other men or maybe she will think you are planning a bug birthday party for her?
4). The man who is a copywriter.
"Hi! I came across your profile and you look interesting. You look like a smart modern woman with a good heart and passion for life. How about a drink sometimes this week?"
She probably knows you sent that message out to half the population at Date First or Match.com or OKCupid or AsianBeauties.com and you are in it for the numbers game!
So the first thing she will do is delete your profile altogether as she is also in the numbers game!
What you should do is check her profile carefully and try to personalize what you say to her to make her feel like you do know her already and in turn, she will want to check out on you!
5). The man who is a pervert or ass-hole!
"I want to get into bed right now with you cause you really are my type! We should be taking photos of us naked together cause we are one of a kind!" Her answer is "deleted this ass-hole!" and why I really do not even want to comment on this!
6). The man who over endorse the gorgeous woman.
When you say too many things like "you look attractive, you look like a babe, you are a celebrity in the making, you are a model and you are a hottie that melts my soul," you are making yourself look so foolish and small in her eyes. The aim of catching a girl's heart is to make yourself look supreme and godly. Not the other way around!
So remember, always put meaningful hobbies and exciting hobbies into your profile and write sincerely but try to attract her attention at the first message all the time. That's the key to picking up women in free online dating sites!
So how do you get a girlfriend or how do I get a girlfriend considering I was once a nerd too? Read other articles too here!
Cheers KISS
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