When Threesomes go Wrong..Voice of a Unicorn.

Here's an article from a woman, a Unicorn, and her experiences in threesomes.
Like the term means; a Unicorn is a very RARE/non-existent animal or woman.
In her story, she tells of unexpected things occurring that were awkward and not desirable.
Her story, just reminds me of how uninformed we are and we DO NOT have knowledge about sexual matters and safe sex.
To boot, she just says to use condoms.

Here's a good resource for helping to prevent any awkward moments:
“JUST BECAUSE IT’S SEXY & SACRED, DOESN’T MAKE IT SAFE!”
Written by, Sheri Winston, at: http://intimateartscenter.com/sensual-interaction-guidelines/

When Threesomes go Wrong..Voice of a Unicorn.

Just a quick note as have seen a few profiles looking for "Unicorns" as of late. In the past especially I have had experiences BEING a Unicorn and her voice I feel is often unheard in the story. Before I joined, this website, I had some famously BAD ones, mainly down to poor planning and communication. Now friendship is a much bigger factor for me in play and I rarely do full sexual FMF (Female/Male/Female) as its so hard to get the balance right, but in my 20s it was a lot different.This is a list based on MY experience..no more..no less.

1) If you are doing the dirty deed in a BNB (Bed and Breakfast) you may do the whole "How do we get our unicorn through the lobby and into the room without the staff noticing??!!" Sorry to inform you but the staff know EXACTLY what the deal is..they have seen it before and will normally turn a blind eye as they snigger away.

2) Do check that both women are actually BI SEXUAL and fancy each other. Sounds obvious...it is not always so.

3) Do discuss beforehand if the threesome is sexual between all three parties, I have had many that aren't and the man simply wanted to watch his Girlfriend with a woman.

4) Do bear in mind everyone may be nervous, especially the Unicorn.You two are an established couple and know each other intimately..she doesn't..YET.

5) Please remember your Unicorn is NOT necessarily an Uber confident Porn Star. I have had two pairs of eyes turn on me and asked "Right what do we do now, its for you to lead" queue sense of panic.

6) I'm sorry but if I'm being a Unicorn having a "No kissing" rule doesn't work for me. If I cant kiss your partner in front of you, how the hell am I going to do anything else? Also kissing is a major part of arousal.Remember your Unicorn is there to fulfill a fantasy,but she herself is a human being and will also be hoping certain needs are met that night.

7) A few times I've felt that its two women competing for who can arouse the guy the most...and in particular who can make him cum. Guys...if you can, involve BOTH women in your orgasm so both feel included in making you cum and reduces feelings of resentment or competition. Or else cum with each woman once....depends on your stamina...winks

8) Unicorns...if the other lass repeatedly goes out for a fag break when he touches you..the threesome is NOT going well...she is pissed off..( especially if the need for a fag comes every time he touches you, not just randomly which would indicate a genuine heavy smoker) A few times it has happened that the woman uses a threesome to have a woman play with her, whilst she has her man to watch.Try and establish this before you go for it.

9) Do NOT go for a huge meal right before your threesome...or you spend half the night afterwards lieing on the bed, watching X Factor and rubbing each others tummy and it is hard to get the sexual vibe back once after that (although was lovely and cosey apart from the X factor...ugh)

10) Unicorn...if you can hear them shouting at each other next door....get out. Don't lie in the spare bed feeling akward...this has not gone to plan. You need to remove yourself from the situation so minimize damage to the primary relationship.

11) Sounds obvious but if Sex is part of the arrangement and it doesn't always have to be of course.....Make sure your Unicorn actually GETS some. Having the man ask her "Am I allowed to fuck her for a bit" is kinda off putting and should have been clear beforehand. Also an orgasm for the Unicorn actually makes a big difference.

12) Make sure Unicorn knows where she will sleep afterwards, personally I like to spend the night with the couple, some may wish her to go in a spare room, or even leave the house straight after. Just make sure she is clear of this. Its quite a big thing.

13) Finally...USE CONDOMS.You and your primary may not need them, but this is essential with a unicorn.

So these are some of the things I have experienced and would love to hear any other perspectives whether they be serious or comical.

View the original article here

This post was made using the Auto Blogging Software from WebMagnates.org This line will not appear when posts are made after activating the software to full version.