How are You Wired, Sexually?

How are You Wired, Sexually?

Jaiya Ma, is a professional sexuality teacher. She has a good article about what turns us ON.
Energetically- sexual energy
Sensually- touch, environment, senses
Sexually- body friction
Kinky- taboo

Have you been having trouble feeling connected and satisfied in the bedroom? Are you excited to learn more about your sexual self and how you interact with others?

In my work with clients I have been having some major breakthroughs due to new philosophies around core erotic wiring. See I’ve discovered 4 main types of wiring: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual and Kinky. We all have a core, which can be one or a combination of these. I’ll be sharing more about them in my upcoming book, but I’m so excited I just couldn’t resist sharing a little with you.

What I’ve been seeing is that many couples are attracted to opposite wiring in their partner’s, but down the road this becomes an issue, especially for people whose core wiring is Energetic. The good news is that we can all learn how to create new wires to new pathways to pleasure! This means that if you have a partner with wiring completely opposite to yours both of you can create new ways to meet each other. The issue is when you are unconscious of your wiring. Then things get tricky. I’ve seen many people have breakthroughs once they understand their own personal wiring and the wiring of their partner. Suddenly it all becomes clear. They know how to touch each other, how to build psychological arousal, and more. It’s really amazing and it seems so simple.

Are you wired Energetically?
Can you sense when something doesn’t feel right? Are you affected easily by your partner’s moods?
Does a rise in your partner’s pleasure greatly turn you on more so than your own? Can you feel things before anyone touches you?
Is the anticipation before you touch the most delicious part of getting turned on?
Do you find that traditional techniques that should turn you on just don’t work for you?
Are you interested in the “what’s more” to sex?
If you answered yes to 3 or more of these questions you may be wired energetically!

Are you wired Sensually?
Do you need the bedroom to be/feel clean and orderly before you can get in the mood?
Is sex better when it includes all of your senses?
Do you feel that romantic things (candles, dinner, music, dancing, massage) help you feel more sexual?
Does stress/tension seem to affect your ability to be a great lover both on the giving and receiving end?
Do you prefer foreplay, cuddling and kissing more than intercourse?
If you answered yes to 2 or more of these questions you may be wired Sensually.

Are you wired Sexually?
Do you really enjoy intercourse?
Do you feel most connected with your partner when you are having both a great quantity and quality of sex?
Are you let down if you don’t have an orgasm/ejaculation?
Does visual erotica turn you on?
Is your orgasm usually due to a build up of friction and tension?
Does the idea of “taking” your partner or being ‘’taken” by your partner ignite arousal?
If you answered yes to three or more of these questions you may be Sexually Wired!

Are you wired Kinky?
Does any activity that you consider taboo greatly turn you on?
Can the mere suggestion of doing something “out of the box” arouse you?
Are you interested in power play, restraint, role-play, training, etc?
Do you have a rich and fulfilling fantasy life?
Have you experienced shame about your fantasies or turn-ons?
If you answered yes to 2 or more of the above questions you may be wired kinky!

This is still a work in progress and I am discovering more about core wiring every day. Would love your feedback and thoughts and I...

...Just wanted to share!

Hope you are filling your day with pleasure!
Jaiya

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